Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Not gotten answers. PLEASE tell me, does he still love me? Judge the way he speaks PLEASE?

1) If he talks to you like this while he has a girlfriend, he will talk to other girls like this if he starts dating you again. 2) The reason he asks about your life with your current boyfriend, because, if it is not as good as it was with him, that strokes his ego... which... is what most guys are all about. They need their ego stroked, and it is very apparent his current girlfriend is not doing that- I mean, after dating for two years it's hard to keep doing that, so he's definitely bored. I'm not sayinig he doesn't have any feelings for you- because you never completely get over an ex. And yes, right now he is probably having some bad times with his current girlfriend, so all he can think about is all the "good times" with you. I think you should be extremely cautious. If you still love him, or think you may love him, than you are stringing along your current boyfriend which is really unfair to him. I learned that you can't have a "back-up" boy, or a "back-burner" boy, which I always had with my ex. But once I met the guy I'm with now (who proposed after 7 months of dating, and we are now getting married in seven months!) I didn't want to be with anyone else, I didn't wonder if I should get back with my ex, I didn't worry about any other guy, or any other relationship, because all I wanted was HIM, and I know that all he wants is to be with me- and no one else. It's very simplistic. Be careful! It sounds to me like this guy just wants his ego stroked, and that this situation may end up in a lot of heartache if you don't watch what you do. My recommendation? Stop talking to him and see what happens. If he pursues you and is willing to break things off with his girl.... and you still think you love him, BREAK UP with your current boyfriend, don't string these people along, it's just not fair.

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